Tuesday, August 12, 2008

Diaper Darling Appreciation Celebration

Joe and I had only been living in the DFW area for several months when we found out we were expecting quads. We didn't know very many people at all and were terrified. North Davis (the church we had been visiting) accepted us with open arms and went over and beyond to help us prepare for/ and bring home quadruplet babies.

Lacy's parents & my parents are the best of friends...so I have spent my entire life growing up with Lacy and her fam in Waco. She is like the sister I never had and was the ONLY person I knew at North Davis (ND) when we moved here. Lacy is amazing and immediately began organizing help and support for us when we found out we were expecting quadruplets---truly an amazing woman with a heart of pure gold.

Me & Lacy


I remember laying in my hospital bed, big as a whale...tired, having a down day and the phone rings. I had never in my life met Linda (who attended church at ND) but here she was, calling me out of the blue- overflowing with excitement to help form a volunteer team for our quads when they get home. Yes, a sweet woman who -at the time- was a complete stranger, managed to organize an entire volunteer team (the "Diaper Darlings"--complete with applications and full background checks) to help care for our babies. PLEASE stop by her site and read about her involvement with: "Share the Care". Linda and her daughter, Marcie, have an amazing story and mean the world to me. Linda is one of the most self-less people I know with an intense passion for helping others.

Joe, Linda, me


The cakes Linda made for the party



Throughout my life, I have always been the type of person (type "A", if you will) who wanted to do things on my own. I was very stubborn, headstrong, and a perfectionist. (My parents and close friends are chuckling to themselves right about now) I had my life planned out for the next 30 years! And if my plan didn't work, I had a back-up plan A, B, C, & D. Funny how I just automatically thought that when we wanted to get pregnant, we would try- and BAM- it would happen. I have always struggled with "letting go" and "letting God". It finally took me being pregnant with quadruplets- confined to a hospital bed on strict bedrest to give it all over to God. I became a new person...much more humble, and learned how to accept the help that He was offering. I am SO glad that I listened because our lives have been tremendously blessed--beyond our wildest dreams--with the people God put-just in the right place, at just the right time. Funny how He always has a way of doing that...if you let Him.

Here are pictures from the Diaper Darling Appreciation Celebration and a few of our new, forever-friends. (Thank you for sending me these pictures dad, Linda and Tempe!)



Miss Ladelle lovin' on Andrew


Sweet Libby & Jim with Savannah


Joyce, Irene with Ethan, and Miss Shirley

Brenda reading with Benjamin


Sheila lovin' on Andrew


Joe, Grandpa & Grandma Steece


Liz and Chris with our little men ( Boo Bear, Drewster, and E-man)


Papa with Savannah


Jody, Ben, & Kaycee


Lacy reading a book with Ethan

Sue with Drew


The lady twins with Sav (Granna & Auntie Judy)


Peggy with Ethan, and Irene with Ben---lots of smiles & giggles!

Savannah going after Carolyn's necklace (always after jewelry)


Ladelle and Sue playing with Ben and his new toy

Tempe & Savannah (Again, watch your necklaces, earrings, and glasses! --all fair game when you are holding Sav!)

Linda with her "adopted" kiddos (Ethan, Benjamin, Andrew, & Savannah)


Joe and his little "mini-me"...every mom wants a little girl who looks just like them...but I must admit, I LOVE that Sav is the spittin image of her daddy...too stinkin' cute!


The kiddies opening some presents...


It was such a wonderful day, filled with laughter and smiles...one that I will never forget. I can't say it enough: Diaper Darlings, THANK YOU for being such a blessing to our family--and thanks to those who are not pictured--you know who you are! We love you and pray that God will continue to bless each and every one of you in ways that you could not even begin to imagine.

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Sunday, August 10, 2008

Naked Babies with Party Hats x 4!

"Did someone say 'cake'? Woo Hoo!" (Andrew & Uncle Dan)


"What did you just place upon my head? I would appreciate the removal of it immediately." (Ethan & Jess)

"Get this thing off of me!!!!...I don't CARE if its pink and fuzzy and cute!" (Savannah & Susan)


"Party-time...excellent...point me toward the cake!" (Ben & Liz)


Happy Birthday! In birth order from R to L: Andrew, Savannah, Ethan, & Ben (We sang the Happy Birthday song, 4 different times--to each baby...as they stared at us like we were crazy!)


Then again....we ARE kinda crazy...


Ethan chowed down on his giant cupcake (Caterpillar cupcake-cake courtesy of Linda)


Savannah didn't want to get her hands dirty and spent most of her time just starting at it...


Drew was eating away and making the funniest faces...


He kept staring at the crowd--couldn't figure out why everyone was watching them eat...


The crowd of onlookers...(the brave few who faced the smoldering Texas inferno for a couple of minutes)


Ben was like Savannah at first and just stared at his cupcake...


...but he quickly got the hang of it! (BTW, that is Benny's birthmark in his right ear, not cake!)


Love this pic!


Assembly line to clean up the kiddies! Grandpa Steece has diaper duty while Judy and Grandma Kate wash Ben


Mommy with Ethan


The quads playing with their new toys (Ben & Sav)


Ben loves the talking Caterpillar storybook


Ooooooh....Ahhhhhh


Next up: The Sunday Party--"Diaper Darling Appreciation/Quad One Year Celebration"
...stay tuned!

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Thursday, August 07, 2008

3 Bumble Bees & 1 Little Ladybug

Again- a big thanks to Chris (Liz's hubby), Aunt Susan, and my dad--who all took loads of pics, so that I could enjoy the party! You guys ROCK!

The theme: (Bugs) Mainly--cute little bumble bees and ladybugs

The invite:


Yes, handmade by yours truly! I figured since I didn't quite get those birth announcements out and skipped on the Christmas cards...I needed to create a neat, personalized card for Ben, Ethan, Andrew, & Savannah's 1st birthdays! (Thanks to Liz, the scrap-booking genius, who helped me brainstorm and gather materials and also to Jen Murray , Miss Creativity, for fun wording ideas!)


The layout: A nice little Saturday mid-morning brunch

The menu: sausage balls, cocktail weenies, fresh fruit and veggies with dips, crackers, Aunt Judy's famous punch, Linda's amazing bug cupcakes and caterpillar cupcake-cake (she made them all from scratch!!!)







Granna, Papa, and Aunt Judy getting the fixins together before guests arrive


Can't believe that my babies are ONE!


Party favors as you leave through the front door! (hee hee...look familiar?)


Good morning, Sunshine! Rise and shine--today is your First Birthday Party!


My sassy little ladybug--checking things out! (ooooh, this could have been bad!) Stacy at Sara Rose Tutus made Sav this AWESOME ladybug tutu to wear on her birthday! She is SO creative!


Savannah and her best bud, Miss Emory!


Oh...the attempt at a family photo....(Ethan, Sav, Ben, and Drew in plaid shorts---seeing as how I threw you a curve ball with all 3 boys wearing stripes! Ha!)


The grands with their grand-quads!
Suz, Papa with Ethan, Granna with Sav, Grandma with Drew, Grandpa with Ben, Joe (Uncle Ed in the background)


"Its MY party and I can cry if I want to..." (Sav still sick, but thankfully no fever today)


Ethan, Drew, Ben, & Savannah--investigating their packages


Gosh, so many different captions I could put here...it seems I have quite a few pics of Ben giving Sav these funny looks!


Liz tickling Mr. Drew


Linda and Ethan sharing a moment


Grandma Kate with Boo Bear--making his new funny face!


Mama Bear feeding her cubbies bananas! (which Sav can almost say---SO cute!)


Stay tuned for naked babies wearing party hats and eating cake! Woo hoo!

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Wednesday, August 06, 2008

Freakishly Chaotic Friday on the Quad's 1st Birthday

This is a LOOOOONG post (pics at the bottom), but it MUST be written out-with every tiny detail-in my online journal so I will always remember the craziness of the FIRST BIRTHDAY....

Thursday (the night before the actual birthday) around 6 pm, Savannah began running a fever...she obviously felt terrible and I medicated her with Tylenol--praying that it was just a bad case of "teething". I continued to go in every hour to check her fever and medicate as needed all throughout the night. In between nursing Sav back to health, I had spent the majority of Thursday night decorating for the partIES (which-BOTH-were to take place here, at our house). I worked until the wee hours of the morning--along with my mom and aunt...it is a good thing, b/c Friday would end up being a nightmare!

Early Friday, Sav's fever shot up to 102.7 and I called in to get an appointment with the pediatrician. (Keep in mind, there was a TON of stuff to do--it was the day before the party! Thank God my mom, aunt, and Miss Shirley were there to lend a helping hand!) During the doctor's visit, I watched as my poor baby girl was poked and prodded and catheterized...couldn't help tear up as she cried...thinking "this is your BIRTHDAY, baby girl..."
I kept whispering in her ear: "I'm so sorry sweet baby...Mommy is SO SOOO sorry" as the tears streamed down her red face.

Yep, just as I thought-- Urinary Tract Infection #2. It seems as though Sav's kidneys are backing up and refluxing as she grows & produces more urine. We administer her first dose of antibiotics and head home. The time is now 11:30 am. As soon as I get home, mom and I run to Sam's Club to buy fresh fruit, veggies, etc. We called the house several times and our answering machine never picked up, which was VERY weird. When we arrived, we learned that our POWER HAD GONE OUT and had been out for about 45 minutes. OMG! Nothing--no refrigeration, no lights, NO AIR CONDITIONING! The power is out throughout our entire neighborhood. Mom and I hope that the power will be back shortly and head to Target to grab some necessary items for the party. When we return--STILL NO POWER! It has now been 1 hr 30 min. During this time, Aunt Judy and Miss Shirley bathed all four babies in the dark, with the inside temperature rising well above 80 degrees! (Keep in mind, Friday was one of the hottest days we have had all summer with temperatures reaching above 105! and we were having guests over all weekend!!! Not to mention four precious babies that needed to cool down immediately)

I call my brother and start making plans to transport the babies over to his house. (Crossing my fingers that the electricity would come back on quickly and that our food would not spoil in the fridge!) Transporting the babies involved: packing up the metal play-gate, grabbing enough formula for who-knows-when, grabbing food, toys, diapers, wipes, etc.

In the meantime, we had someone over to clean the house (for the first time in forever)--she could not continue b/c she could not run the vacuum cleaner. And Shiloh, by this time- had urinated on the carpet for the FIFTH time that day! OMG! Now please understand that Shiloh has been potty trained since she was like 4 months old. Obviously, she was in pain and this was NOT like her--so I needed to take her to the vet ASAP before they closed for the day! (I'm thinking bladder infection---like Sav! How ironic!)

Meanwhile, as I am loading the babies into the burb, I notice that Sav is BURNING UP...like RIDICULOUSLY hot--ON FIRE. I take her temp---103.8!!! OMG. I call the pedi, give her Tylenol and am told to call them back if it does not go down. (ARE YOU KIDDING ME??? OMG. THIS DAY CANNOT GET ANY WORSE)

The time is now 3 pm and I have not done anything birthday related whatsoever. I am drenched in sweat, the babies are loaded in the car, Shiloh is loaded in the car, my aunt is riding shotgun and my mom is already on her way to my brother's house in her car. I look at Judy and tell her that I HAVE to get Shi to the vet. So, we head over to the vet and I explain the crazy situation to them (they know that I am the chick with the quad babies) and they are more than gracious to take Shiloh- no problem. Before we head out to my brother's house (15 minutes away) we decide to check if I have power one more time...after all, there is SO much to do!

I walk into the house, NOTHING...NOTHING but a wall of thick, HOT, humid, air that hits my face like a ton of bricks--easily over 80 degrees inside my house now and 3:30 pm--right in the middle of the hottest day of my life. SHEESH. ("Okay God, what in the world are you trying to tell me? Usually I get you...I completely understand your little signs...but I am LOST here, God....NO idea where you are headed with this one") I proceed to grab various papers, fruit, etc--stuff that we could work on while at my brother's house. Out to the car--in to the house--out to the car---in to the house...sweat DRIPPING from every inch of my body. As I was reaching for the door handle on my last trip out to the car---"WHALLAH!" The lights come on! "Haaaa-llelujah! Haaaaaa-llelujah...Hallelujah-Hallelujah...Halle-le-eee-lujah!" (you could hear the chorus singing in my head...trumpets sounding)

Now the fun part--unpacking EVERYTHING I had JUST finished loading in the car--including four tired, sweaty, cranky, been-awake-for-hours-and-missed-their-naps, quad babies who happen to be ONE on this very day. (WOW-what a birth-day!)

Within 30 minutes, out-of-town family members begin to arrive at our boiling hot home (4-4:30 pm). In the midst of letting family inside, decorating, trying to prepare food for Saturday and unloading the burb...I get a call from the vet:
Shiloh has blood in her urine and they want to keep her overnight to collect enough urine for an extensive analysis. They must also perform blood work as she may have KIDNEY FAILURE! "Excuse me...did you just say KIDNEY FAILURE?" My healthy, 3-year-old puppy??? I have to trust the vet and block all negative thoughts out of my head for the time being. HOLY COW! THIS DAY IS AWESOME! (I was so worried about my little doggie)

For the rest of the evening, my Aunt Susan and Uncle Ronnie were able to play and love on the quads (and took the only pics of the quads on their actual birth-day...I know, I know....terrible) while my mom and Aunt worked their little behinds off in my kitchen- preparing food & punch and such. I finished cleaning and decorating, ran some more errands...the Steeces arrived- and the Steece men immediately began tedious yard work all night while Kate helped clean and brought in food and before you know it, it was midnight. WHEW!

WOW. Jeez. What a day! Here are pics that my Aunt and Uncle took of the quaddies.

Sav (running fever), Drew, Uncle Ronnie, Ethan, Ben, Aunt Susan


Ben LOVED patting Ronnie's head! He is making his bulldog face that we witness quite often when he is being playful (he crinkles up his nose and breathes heavily through his nostrils)


Sweet lovable Drew, with the most infectious little grin


Ethan, my content little man, always assessing every situation with those big beautiful eyes!


Show us those teeth, Benny! Ben jumps at every opportunity to perform for an audience.


Poor Savannah...sweet little sick girlie. Miss Independent has quickly become Miss Cuddle Bug: always wanting to be held and loved


Andrew, Ethan, & Ben with Susan --what happy, little gentlemen!


For the record: Sav's temp came down and she felt much better by Sunday, Shiloh ended up having crystals in her urine and is OK! (the equivalent of human kidney stones?)--she is on a special diet and must drink lots and pee lots, and our house temperature for the weekend was less than desirable---but we all made it and had a great weekend, in spite of one cRRRRaZy Friday!

Stay tuned for the Saturday Birthday Bash!


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Tuesday, August 05, 2008

I'm Working On It!

(I know, this post is a let down) but wanted to thank you all for the sweet Birthday wishes!!! I did not even turn on my computer for 4 straight days! (that MIGHT be a record for me) We had an incredible weekend with family and friends! Can't wait to blog about it all. I am getting pictures together--but also trying to clean up and organize and recover from 2 big parties in 2 short days! Oh-and one big trip to the pedi yesterday for their ONE YEAR exams! So please pardon my delay! WHEW! I am one tired mama. (but had lots of AMAZING help all weekend long!)

I'll have to start with the actual "birth-day" (friday)...one of those days where EVERYTHING was going wrong! THAT will be a fun post! STAY TUNED! ;)



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